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whatever small boy.................
Koosi, I stem saam. Maybe rulez need to be revised and updated. This sounds terrible close to pornI think the OP should rather ask these questions by writing to Dr. Adri in the Huisgenoot
Seriously though, there's far better resources on the internet for this than a broadband forum...
Wow.
Nick333
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Coming from the guy who posted explicit quotes about what anal sex supposedly doe's to the sphincter?
What is normal, again?
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Ek stem saam, dit maak my ongelooflik ongemaklik om hierdie k@k te sien as my gedagtes oor tegniese goed gaan.
Necuno
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Scientific, explanatory information for the uneducated skew masses Nicky
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Nick333
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If it make's you feel uncomfortable stop opening the thread.
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Honesty. dude just honesty.
you could start a thread on this topi. WTF not talk to her about it?
I don't think you are weird for wanting it, but from my experience receiving is not that great, giving is a lot of fun, and it can be for both parties, because getting her ready for it to a point where you minimize the pain as much as possible for her, this is important if you want to repeat it again ever, is a massive turn on, because it is a lot of little gestures that are all sweet and sensual, in the end you get a nice reward for the effort.
from a previous experience, I can also say if she is not up for it, that does not mean the end of the relationship. sex is just a part of it. you can get to know every inch of a person's body in 6 months, but in 60 years you could not know them completely yet.
I had a SO that was not into bondage, I am, with that relationship everything still worked out fine, we changed as people and went our separate ways and it had nothing to do with the difference in bedroom preference.
if the honesty thing does not work there is always the card that is usually reserved for women, but men can use it as well.
denial. its not easy, but make no mention of sex. do not initiate. when she initiates sex, have an excuse ready, hard day at work, stomach bug, headache.
after about two weeks of this you initiate it, in a sweet and kind and cuddly way, and then act like a teenager, no orgasm for either party allowed (at this point only)
another week later provided you played your cards right, and never ever gave the impression you were angry or upset, simply not giving her sex (sure you can sort yourself out, but here you have to do it so she does not find out) she will be jumping you and she will be willing to do anything to prevent the teenage experience from happening again.
FYI when I did this I had a piercing that was healing, so the lack of sex did not drive me crazy. yes it was worth it. just know that if you make a mistake you can cause an argument that will end up being severe, because what you will be doing is being an ASS.
GLHF
you could start a thread on this topi. WTF not talk to her about it?
I don't think you are weird for wanting it, but from my experience receiving is not that great, giving is a lot of fun, and it can be for both parties, because getting her ready for it to a point where you minimize the pain as much as possible for her, this is important if you want to repeat it again ever, is a massive turn on, because it is a lot of little gestures that are all sweet and sensual, in the end you get a nice reward for the effort.
from a previous experience, I can also say if she is not up for it, that does not mean the end of the relationship. sex is just a part of it. you can get to know every inch of a person's body in 6 months, but in 60 years you could not know them completely yet.
I had a SO that was not into bondage, I am, with that relationship everything still worked out fine, we changed as people and went our separate ways and it had nothing to do with the difference in bedroom preference.
if the honesty thing does not work there is always the card that is usually reserved for women, but men can use it as well.
denial. its not easy, but make no mention of sex. do not initiate. when she initiates sex, have an excuse ready, hard day at work, stomach bug, headache.
after about two weeks of this you initiate it, in a sweet and kind and cuddly way, and then act like a teenager, no orgasm for either party allowed (at this point only)
another week later provided you played your cards right, and never ever gave the impression you were angry or upset, simply not giving her sex (sure you can sort yourself out, but here you have to do it so she does not find out) she will be jumping you and she will be willing to do anything to prevent the teenage experience from happening again.
FYI when I did this I had a piercing that was healing, so the lack of sex did not drive me crazy. yes it was worth it. just know that if you make a mistake you can cause an argument that will end up being severe, because what you will be doing is being an ASS.
GLHF
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the way I see it, klink die hele k@k speletjie taamlik tegnies :wtf:
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add a gif ?
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I see you've decided to go full eks eventually.
Did you perhaps read the thread title, stay out if you do not want to read about this stuff!
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You have to wonder why they are posting here and keep on opening if its so disturbing... perhaps they really want anal but don't know it yet
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