bb_matt
Executive Member
Dont make urself an outsider to be different, you can have your special tastes and interests but u can still fit in with society.
You have to ask yourself exactly what society and exactly what your fitting into.
If you mean the general stuff we all have to do (within reason) to survive, then yes - by all means fit in, you pretty much have to. That would be getting a job, a place to live, medical aid etc.
If, on the other hand, your refering to "fitting in" with the "accepted norm", then you'll have a hard time, because there really isn't one, or rather, there's a bunch of them.
Celebrate being different, don't hide it. If you've got the brain power to think beyond the average, don't waste it because your scared of what people may think of you.
I've spent parts of my life doing that and parts not doing it - no prizes for guessing which parts gave me the most enjoyment, or at least led me to actually LIVE my life, as opposed to existing.
School really is a horrible place if you stand out from the "accepted norm", but rest assured that the people who pick on you will end up living boring lives in their boring little homes, with their 2.5 children. Nothing wrong with that if you have no desire to be anything more than a consumer.
At school you have to hide away certain things, or face being picked on all the time - use your brains and you'll be fine, in fact, you can use it to your advantage.
When you get older - usually starting from college or uni, you'll find most the people will start wanting to be different as they get older and you'll have a head start.
Being different on purpose is great if your doing it for the right reasons, those reasons are ones of exploring, learning and creating.
If nobody was ever "different", nothing would ever get done.