Unexpected pregnancy

YingYang said:
These kinds of things happened to me a few times already and it turned out to be either not pregnant or not mine.

First time a 34 year old lady (I was 23) told me she's pregnant, I go the fsck crazy! Then I find a completed form in a pair of jeans that she forgot at my flat with the details of the father on. Turned out she was taking him to court for not helping her with buying things for the upcoming baby.

Then a girl (whom I only later found out was a gold digger) told me the same thing, I go the fsck nuts once again!. She asked me money for an abortion which I gave to her. I've never seen her again.

Another one was my girlfriend at the time, she fell pregnant and by default I believe the baby girl was mine. After the child was one year old I took her to my parents for the first time and my mother took one look at her and said she looks nothing like us. The following week I made an appointment at a medical lab and we (gf and I) took the baby there.

Two weeks later the results were in the mail - I was not the father. So I distanced myself from both baby and mother.

Mug, women can lie! Make sure you know where you get your head into :)
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shame man, that hurts a hell of a lot, kudos to you
 
Anon123 said:
I'm going through something very similar, normally always use a condom but one drunk night about 3 weeks ago GF told me she was on the pill and taking at at the same time everyday ect. and that I should'nt worry. she called this morning to tell me she thinks she's pregnant because she's late and that she might of missed a pill or two during that time, I'm so worried now. Thing is though, she has wanted a child for a while now we have been dating for 4 yrs and her brother just had a kid and has been acting all broody so this might be what she wanted but I will never know. She has also told me that if she is she won't consider abortion.

Finger crossed for the pregnancy test tomorrow!

Moral of the story: ALWAY'S USE PROTECTION


To the OP - Good luck :)
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dear god people, get snipped
 
Anon123 said:
I'm going through something very similar, normally always use a condom but one drunk night about 3 weeks ago GF told me she was on the pill and taking at at the same time everyday ect. and that I should'nt worry. she called this morning to tell me she thinks she's pregnant because she's late and that she might of missed a pill or two during that time, I'm so worried now. Thing is though, she has wanted a child for a while now we have been dating for 4 yrs and her brother just had a kid and has been acting all broody so this might be what she wanted but I will never know. She has also told me that if she is she won't consider abortion.

Finger crossed for the pregnancy test tomorrow!

Moral of the story: ALWAY'S USE PROTECTION


To the OP - Good luck :)
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Congratulations, you're fscked!

:)
 
STS said:
shame man, that hurts a hell of a lot, kudos to you
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Man, stop the emo BS. You read that thread where I went into the details (back when you were still known as someone else... :) )

edit:...and I was too (now that I think of it)
 
Anon123 said:
I'm going through something very similar, normally always use a condom but one drunk night about 3 weeks ago GF told me she was on the pill and taking at at the same time everyday ect. and that I should'nt worry. she called this morning to tell me she thinks she's pregnant because she's late and that she might of missed a pill or two during that time, I'm so worried now. Thing is though, she has wanted a child for a while now we have been dating for 4 yrs and her brother just had a kid and has been acting all broody so this might be what she wanted but I will never know. She has also told me that if she is she won't consider abortion.

Finger crossed for the pregnancy test tomorrow!

Moral of the story: ALWAY'S USE PROTECTION


To the OP - Good luck :)
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Thanks and goodluck to you too.

will give you guys an update after "the talk"
 
KalMaverick said:
You seriously need to get over trying to convincer her to have an abortion.

For someone that has a lot of doubts the baby is actually theirs, you sure are stopping at nothing to make sure you don't have to deal with it.
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so,what else am I suppose to do? and please...no more "man up" comments....i will not man up!
 
mug11 said:
so,what else am I suppose to do? and please...no more "man up" comments....i will not man up!
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Be prepared to be a father, have a test to see if the baby is yours (when the option is available). Don't worry I won't tell you to man up, if the baby is yours hopefully the law will do that for me ;)
 
YingYang said:
Man, stop the emo BS. You read that thread where I went into the details (back when you were still known as someone else... :) )

edit:...and I was too (now that I think of it)
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all that matters i that we know who each other are and we feel for each other :p

every time you share that story though, as a dad i hurt deep down inside :(
 
STS said:
all that matters i that we know who each other are and we feel for each other :p
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Yeah, these kids know nothing :p

STS said:
every time you share that story though, as a dad i hurt deep down inside :(
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Slightly OT: the other day I was going through our family photo's on our family PC at home and I couldn't find a single pic of her, so I think my wife deleted it. Which is not necessarily a bad thing because I know her intentions were to reduce me from mulling over the same issue. I hardly think about her nowadays. Last month was 3 years ago I saw her for the last time :)
 
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