medicnick83
Paramedic
So what you're saying either INDIRECTLY or point blank is that I have pedophile-type tendency's ?
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So what you're saying either INDIRECTLY or point blank is that I have pedophile-type tendency's ?
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How long have you known she has been dating him for? Personally I would sit him down and ask him in all honestly. WTF does a 23 year old want with a 16 year old.
He is not 20 or hell even 21 but 23. It is dodgy!
I believe ya.
My first experience of this was working in edgemead, I saw this hot girl, she had a great body... I thought she was at least 18/19.
I asked someone about her (because in edgemead, everyone knows everyone) and I found out she was 12!
18 or 19 never mind 12, unripe sushi is not tasty. Girls that young (18)
are total dimwits. So you could be a big brother but otherwise
.Even girls in their 20s can be stupid. It depends.
Yes
This happens quite often in Durban, but most 16 year old girls that I know that are dating guys in the 20's are having sex. I don't know what your views on it are but I wouldn't allow it. Technically he isn't really a pedadophile as if she's 16 they may legally have sex. Maybe she really likes him and she won't have sex but chances are . . .
medicnick83
Paramedic
18 or 19 never mind 12, unripe sushi is not tasty. Girls that young (18)
are total dimwits. So you could be a big brother but otherwise
Even girls in their 20s can be stupid. It depends.
All on maturity, how they were brought up etc...
medicnick83
Paramedic
Not cool dude! You don't know me at all, if you did, you'd so damn well take that back!
Peder
Hobbit
well if you look at most guys her age too they're real A $ $ holes(sorry for the word but they are) and all they want is one thing. Whereas a older guy is more likely to want a relationship i think.
(thats what i picked up from around)
(thats what i picked up from around)
HavocXphere
Honorary Master
This thread is going to tank real soon...
Not cool dude! You don't know me at all, if you did, you'd so damn well take that back!
You asked and I answered, if you do not like the answer do not ask the question.
medicnick83
Paramedic
You don't know me, so you have nothing to go on to base that decision on.
The fact that I've done nothing with a girl that is more than willing to let me do anything I want to her must say something to you about my character... yet, you probably didn't even read my posts correctly but either way, you judged me... and for that... you're a total toss in my eyes.
ENOUGH SAID!
Not cool dude! You don't know me at all, if you did, you'd so damn well take that back!
Don't worry about it bro.
I know I'm not a paedophile, but have to remind myself that younger ladies are off territory (not that I'm looking anyway).
Main thing is. We're young and need to get into the grip of adulthood. If I'm 26 I'll have a different mindset than 24 most probably, so I'm not stressed.
ENOUGH SAID!
Yes, I think you have said enough.
Unless they were brought up reading Leo Tolstoy, spent their time
in the presence of intelligent older people exclusively and forth, I doubt it.
medicnick83
Paramedic
*shrug*
They won't be mature.
They won’t be, and at 16 they honestly don’t need to be.
Mephisto_Helix
Resident Postwhore
You guys are really painful...the age difference is only 7 yrs. For goodness sake...that's not huge. My hubby is 8 yrs older than me.
If you spoke to 16 yr old kids these days I promise you thay're not as innocent as you'd like to believe. A lot of them are sexually active and have been for a while. They're women who need guidance and trust. A 23 yr old guy is not a paedophile for dating a 16 yr old...16 yrs is not underage.
If you spoke to 16 yr old kids these days I promise you thay're not as innocent as you'd like to believe. A lot of them are sexually active and have been for a while. They're women who need guidance and trust. A 23 yr old guy is not a paedophile for dating a 16 yr old...16 yrs is not underage.
Mephisto_Helix
Resident Postwhore
exactly, well put ..... but it seems ignorance is the order of the day for some peeps.