Urgent. Peadophile?

No-one is saying it's right. It happens, and there's not much you can do about it except raise your kids so they're able to make their own responsible decisions when it comes to sexual relationships.

Well I’m sorry, but responsibility and 16 does not go together generally, I do not know anyone here or their children so I can only generalize. A 16 year old child cannot be responsible for entering into a binding legal agreement for a reason, show me one contract more biding than having a child…at any age.
 
Same here (well almost, I’m the father) and it’s not easy, the question was if you think it’s right, not weather it happens or not. Would you encourage your teen daughter to date an adult?

No, I wouldn't encourage it but I'd make darn sure that she was informed enough to be able to make a responsible decision about it and to know that to be liked she wouldn't have to sleep with the guy.
 
Well I’m sorry, but responsibility and 16 does not go together generally, I do not know anyone here or their children so I can only generalize. A 16 year old child cannot be responsible for entering into a binding legal agreement for a reason, show me one contract more biding than having a child…at any age.

It is possible to have responsible sex and NOT fall pregnant. Anyway, it doesn't mean that the 16 yr old dating the older guy necessarily means she's sleeping with him.
 
make it any more personal buddy, go on ....... you know forum rules.
 
I've stopped posting in this topic because I think DDV TECH is a idiot... and I've added him to ignore, by the looks of things, I don't really want to post my thoughts anymore.
 
It is possible to have responsible sex and NOT fall pregnant. Anyway, it doesn't mean that the 16 yr old dating the older guy necessarily means she's sleeping with him.

I think in a country like SA where HIV and Hepatitis B are so prevalent,
any sex talk not metioning these problems is seriously lacking.
 
I've stopped posting in this topic because I think DDV TECH is a idiot... and I've added him to ignore, by the looks of things, I don't really want to post my thoughts anymore.

You're that guy who considers 16 yo's mature, aren't you? :)
 
I'm a mother of a 16 yr old boy and I know what the 16 yr old girls in his class are involved in...the girls are WAY more advanced in the dating/sex game than the guys. The guys are still into their sports, cars and computer games and the 16 yr old girls are all on the prowl for older guys. They wouldn't even consider dating the 16 yr old boys.

Thats because the 16 year olds are b@nging the 14 year old girls. And also masturbation keeps guys busy for a while.
 
I respect the forum rules ........ otherwise I'd be a **** like you hey.
 
True, but according to your own post unlikely perhaps?

LOL, yes, probably unlikely. But speaking from (my own) experience I think teens engage in oral sex more often than actual penetrative sex. Hopefully they're well informed about STDs and contraception. At the end of the day when your teenaged daughter leaves your home with her friends/date you only have your trust in her. There's not much else you can do.
 
God, that easier said than done. I could have lived without knowing about the oral sex thing….why did I have kids?...:D

LOL. I think you need to have a talk to your daughter. You'll be shocked to discover just how much the kids know these days.
 
The 16 yr old boys are still too shy to ask the girls out! :)



True...thank goodness for that!

So you would let your son w@nk all he wants?

Edit: Looking at your previous posts you've experimented your fair share when you were his age
 
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