Wife issues [Solved]

Dirtdiver said:
What will u want to discuss with an ex - unless u have kids together.
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In most cases people spent large chunks of their lives with their ex's.

Massive percentages of their adult lives more than likely.

There is a lot that was shared and experienced together. That doesn't simply disappear when you hook up with the next person.

It's like asking what is there to for your spouse to discuss with their parents or siblings...obviously nothing at all.
 
Ninja'd said:
Oh no, please don't. Listening to Eminem when your spouse is cheating is like listening to Fortunate Son while flying a Huey in Vietnam.
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It brings out the feels and the anger.

But it may be counter productive
 
Lupus said:
I've got no problems with my wife having access to my phone, pc or whatever don't have anything to hide.[/QUOTE]

And that is what makes all the difference.

It's not the actual content that matters, but rather the attitude towards it.

If wifey didn't hide the conversation in this case and OP found it could he then really be upset about it as it's there for all to see open cards.

But more than likely the only reason she feels the need to hide it, is because of some historical action or response from OP sitting fresh in her mind...which he has really admitted to saying that he demanded she not speak to her ex for whatever reason.

Therefore is it not really self-inflicted by OP and an expected response on her part?[
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My 2c... My have has full access to my phone and I have full access to her phone. We are married, therefor we believe that we have NO right to hide anything from the other person. If I were in your shoes and believe me I love my wife to bits, I would make one HUGE fuss about it, to the point of chasing her out of the house to go stay with her X, since it seems like that is what she wants. Maybe that will shock her enough to realize that it is not worth it or she will leave you, which will mean that she doesn't in fact love you any longer... I would sort it out ASAP.
 
I.am.Sam said:
you been on this site for long

you should know we need pics of said wife to validate if its worthy of keeping her or not
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Come on - no wife that runs around in secret is worthy of keeping no matter what she looks like! Looks evaporate and they evaporate relatively quickly.

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MEIOT said:
Come on - no wife that runs around in secret is worthy of keeping no matter what she looks like! Looks evaporate and they evaporate relatively quickly.

:laugh:
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As far as I know she hasn't met him.

Took me about 20min to read through all the messages yesterday
 
What if, said sneaky wife somehow finds her way onto this forum and starts reading these posts...

Oh and Mandy if YOU are reading this, I'm not giving you that R86. tief!
 
SauRoNZA said:
And yet no one ever ponders why a woman would feel the need to do things in secret and be overprotective of her phone for was is ultimately a pretty innocent conversation.

Oh, how different things would be if women were just allowed a little freedom of expression.
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All these arguments that he reminds me of this joke:

"My wife once secretly observed me while I was masturbating to porn. I think she might be a pervert."

Totally innocent depending on the viewpoint right.

The conundrum here is that if he assumes her honesty and confronts her directly she'll just be as overprotective of her denial as she is with her phone.

Why hasn't she opened up about the innocent liaison from the get go if she really wants transparency in a marriage?

And being a lawyer with no soul its even worse. Thinks absolutely nothing of ruining this alliance - with kids.

OP has every right to take measures to uncover her deceit.
 
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