Wife issues [Solved]

Anti-Chris said:
My 2c... My have has full access to my phone and I have full access to her phone. We are married, therefor we believe that we have NO right to hide anything from the other person. If I were in your shoes and believe me I love my wife to bits, I would make one HUGE fuss about it, to the point of chasing her out of the house to go stay with her X, since it seems like that is what she wants. Maybe that will shock her enough to realize that it is not worth it or she will leave you, which will mean that she doesn't in fact love you any longer... I would sort it out ASAP.
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Jesus Christ.

One little text and her intention is sommer to leave and go live with the ex.

Fok some men are deep up their own arse.
 
There has been no infidelity here, bit of flirting and talking.

Go speak with her if it's making you feel worried.
 
Iamnotageek said:
You know, I can understand your pain. I have also been there. Not married but girlfriend. However, and bear with me here.... Have you considered the fact that you violated her privacy by going through her phone?

Yes I know you had good reason to, but if you do talk to her, she's going to ask, "How do you know this?"

"I saw it on your phone"

"You went through my personal messages without telling me!"

You can see where I'm going with this. Then you'll be on the defensive instead of the offensive.

& that is most probably another thread all on it's own.

What will your answer be to, "How do you know we've been messaging each other / flirting?"

Also, you've seen the messages, what could she possibly say that'll make you stay on the same trust level again? Oh it was just for a laugh? Doubtful. From your replies it seems like the trust is already broken, and that naai, trust, is like a broken vase....

You can glue it back together but you'll always see the cracks.

Naai my bru, I'm sorry this happened to you, but get out ekse. I'd rather masterbate to my mother's wedding pictures than be with a flirting / cheating partner.

P.S. Screw you Mandy!
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I LOL'd and cringed all at once.
Well played.
 
Anonymouse123 said:
She does follow him and he has no posts.

Odd thing he said the only reason he is on Instagram is to speak to her
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Tell her that her actions have made you suspicious, and the thing that he joined insta made you jealous.
Jealousy might play in your favour to justify your scratching. :P
 
Anonymouse123 said:
https://www.verywellmind.com/emotional-affairs-and-infidelity-2303091
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An emotional affair is when a person not only invests more of their emotional energy outside their marriage but also receives emotional support and companionship from the new relationship. [
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Can you honestly even say that has possibly happened after a conversation of a few minutes on Instagram?

Really? In that case...**** me sideways.

The truth of the matter is an affair is a prolonged and dragged out thing with many points of failure the other party has crosses to repeatedly keep themselves invested on the other side instead of their own relationship.

Can you honestly say that is the case here? You don't even know if she would have followed through with meeting up with the guy.
 
She is a Dr and has invited him for a consult to meet, he is a lawyer and invited her to go to court with him and she agreed.
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Is his name Johnny Sins?
 
SauRoNZA said:
Jesus Christ.

One little text and her intention is sommer to leave and go live with the ex.

Fok some men are deep up their own arse.
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Or just ignore the thing and hope that it will go away on its own... Either be a wuss and accept that she will be banging the x sooner or later, or sort it out now...
 
I.am.Sam said:
he only knows the lawyers has insta cause he read it on the messages

FFS get with the times
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Man i've been missing a couple of posts here. Trying to study and keep an eye on this thread lol.
 
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