Wife issues [Solved]

Anonymouse123 said:
I just feel so sick, I don't even want to look at her or touch her or speak to her
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You know, I can understand your pain. I have also been there. Not married but girlfriend. However, and bear with me here.... Have you considered the fact that you violated her privacy by going through her phone?

Yes I know you had good reason to, but if you do talk to her, she's going to ask, "How do you know this?"

"I saw it on your phone"

"You went through my personal messages without telling me!"

You can see where I'm going with this. Then you'll be on the defensive instead of the offensive.

& that is most probably another thread all on it's own.

What will your answer be to, "How do you know we've been messaging each other / flirting?"

Also, you've seen the messages, what could she possibly say that'll make you stay on the same trust level again? Oh it was just for a laugh? Doubtful. From your replies it seems like the trust is already broken, and that naai, trust, is like a broken vase....

You can glue it back together but you'll always see the cracks.

Naai my bru, I'm sorry this happened to you, but get out ekse. I'd rather masterbate to my mother's wedding pictures than be with a flirting / cheating partner.

P.S. Screw you Mandy!
 
Iamnotageek said:
You know, I can understand your pain. I have also been there. Not married but girlfriend. However, and bear with me here.... Have you considered the fact that you violated her privacy by going through her phone?

Yes I know you had good reason to, but if you do talk to her, she's going to ask, "How do you know this?"

"I saw it on your phone"

"You went through my personal messages without telling me!"

You can see where I'm going with this. Then you'll be on the defensive instead of the offensive.

& that is most probably another thread all on it's own.

What will your answer be to, "How do you know we've been messaging each other / flirting?"

Also, you've seen the messages, what could she possibly say that'll make you stay on the same trust level again? Oh it was just for a laugh? Doubtful. From your replies it seems like the trust is already broken, and that naai, trust, is like a broken vase....

You can glue it back together but you'll always see the cracks.

Naai my bru, I'm sorry this happened to you, but get out ekse. I'd rather masterbate to my mother's wedding pictures than be with a flirting / cheating partner.

P.S. Screw you Mandy!
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Knowing her she will rather bring up something I said 10 years ago. I don't think she will go on about me seeing her phone. As we have each others phones and open access to it.

But I know what you say about the trust
 
WaxLyrical said:
OP has every right to take measures to uncover her deceit.
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Oh, I have no issues there.

I just always ponder how we got here and if it could have been avoided by simply being a bit more open and allowing people some space.

Deceit is a very strong term though.
 
Anonymouse123 said:
Knowing her she will rather bring up something I said 10 years ago. I don't think she will go on about me seeing her phone. As we have each others phones and open access to it.

But I know what you say about the trust
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OMG just like Mandy! Have an argument where she did something wrong, then she jumps into her Delorean and brings up **** from the past so you can waste 3 hrs talking about old kak.

Nooit bra. Man I'm so glad I don't have to put up with that anymore! Chicks bringing up the past.... ooooh jinne los maa
 
Iamnotageek said:
OMG just like Mandy! Have an argument where she did something wrong, then she jumps into her Delorean and brings up **** from the past so you can waste 3 hrs talking about old kak.

Nooit bra. Man I'm so glad I don't have to put up with that anymore! Chicks bringing up the past.... ooooh jinne los maa
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Who is Mandy
 
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