Couldn't have said it better myself. I have said before, nothing in life is perfect. One expect it to be, but it is not. Despite being a huge Apple fan, I'm not blind to the quirks or shortfalls. One doesn't always understand Apple's reason for doing certain things in a certain way, maybe there is method to the madness or maybe not, but it is what it is.
When I used a Windows PC, copying photos etc from my iPhone was always a pain. I've never used iTunes, but rather 3rd party software (i.e. Syncios) to copy photos or movies to and from my devices. Of course iTunes still need to be installed on the machine, though. It worked OK to some degree, but sometimes the connection would be lost, then I had to re-insert the cable and start from scratch (might have also been a problem with my Windows, I don't know)
Switched to MacOS and it's a dream to AirDrop things without any issues at all. The Apple ecosystem is unrivalled and a pleasant experience.