So they said we were peeping toms!!
Lucky white people does not feel offended. My grandmother had an endearing term for me that is now totally political incorrect.

. And I think that is why one poster said it was a word we grew up with that did not have a negative connection. Honestly. ( do not chop my head off )
But that said
It does not matter. I have come to the realization that some words are like talking about your GF's wobbles. She does not like it, even if it does not bother anybody else it’s her issue and you should not talk about it or look at it or anything. Respect the fact that she is sensitive about her wobbles.
IF you are going to use it your nookie card will be empty for months.
Baboon is another one. Some people just do not react well to it, so do not use it.
Also like a girl its volatile, some people take no offence and others blow up like a landmine. So rather avoid it.
I’m not making excuses for Mr Darren, I’m just saying that many of the terms that people find offensive was used it a total different way than they think it was.
But do not use it. It’s a ticking bomb.