@PBCool @TheRoDent My wife and I also have this issue. We both play Final Fantasy 14 and chat over discord, but sometimes we need to use the VPN when the servers are very populated else we get serious packet loss and rubberbanding, even when the ping stable (I don't believe it is a network issue on our side, but routing on theirs).
But when either of us do so, myself on Linux and my wife on Windows 10, Discord constantly disconnects for a few seconds and then reconnects. While we can basically talk across the rooms to get around it, I do 8 player content where we need voice comms, so I've had to resort to running a VM bridged to router just to have a stable Discord connection, which is obviously less than ideal.
Please have a look into this.
Thanks,
Saieden