Marriage/Relationship Advice

Ninja'd said:
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Becky Lynch is moer cute, even though she refers to herself as "The Man". I would wrestle her.
 
Cifero said:
Does she use her phone/laptop often, with her facing you so you cant see the screen?
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Constantly, it is part of her job as she is always checking her emails but we cant even go out without her locked on to her phone.
 
crocopede said:
OP.

No amount of internet is going to resolve this. What you need is perspective. Be it eating some shrooms and meditating on a mountain or just hiking in the wilderness for a few days by yourself.

You won't find clarity in our day and age anywhere but within yourself removed from your ego.
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a good solo weekend away sounds like a great idea.
 
Even though something like 70% of divorces are instigated by the woman, I tend to agree with Gavin McInnes when he says its always the man's fault. Maybe not always but usually in my opinion.

I worry for guys who consider divorce because the dating market for guys is shrinking, and I see so many guys who regret it down the line. Take it from me, the world is tough for single, middle-aged men. Being on our own (and that includes just having fcck buddies) is not good for us. You might get used to it (god forbid you learn to like it), but it will end badly.

The point is, divorce if you have to (even if you just want to), but try to keep it to a minimum, because eventually you will just have to settle for what you can get. Far better to settle when you still have a choice.
 
ambroseg1 said:
Dude. Dont bullshit a bullshitter. You came here for sympathy/approval. Either way, you seem to have some bit of conscience left. You KNOW in your heart of hearts what you plan to and want to do.

All I'm saying is, be a man about it. Get a divorce from your wife ASAP. Dont marry again as you are not marriage type. That bullshit about "better or worse".......it includes your spouse's body changing and you not liking it. ;)
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What a fcked up response.
 
ambroseg1 said:
Yes. You are a complete shallow SOB of note who has no business being married. Were you listenting to the vows you made that day?

Your wife in my opinion also has no business being married again.
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What an even more fcked up response.
 
FlippyCake said:
If this marriage fails, I never plan to again.
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I don't see the point unless you're going to have kids. Not that kids are a consideration when it comes to divorce these days anyway.
 
FlippyCake said:
Constantly, it is part of her job as she is always checking her emails but we cant even go out without her locked on to her phone.
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That would piss me off.
 
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FlippyCake said:
We have had massive issues about it, even at home its like talking to a wall because she is so lost in her laptop or phones.
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That is a major issue, and it's disrespectful.

One rule in my house, no toys at the dinner table, no phones, no computers, not even small toy cars. Nothing. You should make that rule.
 
Cr419 said:
That would piss be off.
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Yeah me too! I once threw my (now) wifes phone out the window cause of this..lol.

To the OP: The chicky from work you are speaking to is sounding like an emotional affair. (Read up on it)
It's not going to help you relationship with your wife any as you are spending your thoughts/emotions etc. on this other chicky and not your spouse.
 
SHe is constantly on her phone.......do yo get to see what she is busy with or she hides it from you. This is a gueg alarm bell ringing.....
And "checking her emails".....she could be on a social media site. My ex used Facebook on PM's to chat to her BF
 
Cr419 said:
That is a major issue, and it's disrespectful.

One rule in my house, no toys at the dinner table, no phones, no computers, not even small toy cars. Nothing. You should make that rule.
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I have tried endlessly....Just get the same response...."but its work I have to do it"
 
schuits said:
Yeah me too! I once threw my (now) wifes phone out the window cause of this..lol.

To the OP: The chicky from work you are speaking to is sounding like an emotional affair. (Read up on it)
It's not going to help you relationship with your wife any as you are spending your thoughts/emotions etc. on this other chicky and not your spouse.
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Makes sense....let me do some reading
 
Cifero said:
SHe is constantly on her phone.......do yo get to see what she is busy with or she hides it from you. This is a gueg alarm bell ringing.....
And "checking her emails".....she could be on a social media site. My ex used Facebook on PM's to chat to her BF
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No she never shows me, I ask and leer and she gets pissed and says its just xxx from work or xxx about ABC and it has to get done.

She does spend a huge amount of time on FB
 
FlippyCake said:
I have tried endlessly....Just get the same response...."but its work I have to do it"
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That's bullshit, even the most important job in the world can wait a bit while you're having dinner at least. Put your foot down on that. Even my small kids will tell you when you come sit at the dinner table with a phone that it's bad manners.
 
I have a question, in ten years time you're with your "soul mate" and she makes radical changes to her appearance, strict gym regiment will you be here asking the same question about another "soul mate" and that you are over wife 2 because her appearance is not appealing to you anymore?
 
we need to talk.....sounds like dejavu....
sorry to say this but, classic case of another interest
 
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