Paying for Dates

Have you girls ever paid while out on a date? Not talking about first time, but later in the relationship?
 
Nick333 said:
I didn't mind paying. There was no question of me paying. I minded that there was not even an offer of contributing.
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But how do you go there? Difficult. I think my granny was over eager burning her bra...

I think it's a difficult situation. I'm not good at dating. So by that time no matter how much I like you I just want to go home and move on to date no 2. All that awareness, should I offer should I not. Should I hold his hand or not. About what will we talk.


I think boys should just pay for the first date. It would take away the stress of what is the right and what is not!
 
ChilliGirl said:
If my dude doesn't wanna pay then he shouldn't ask me to go somewhere....

PS: though we'd been on a few more ''friendly'' dates (friends places, movies, drinks...) On our first ''offical romantic '' date -dinner for 2 at a nice place- he not only paid for dinner but also gave me a R400 bottle of nice smellies as a pressie. :D
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+1
 
Helghast said:
Have you girls ever paid while out on a date? Not talking about first time, but later in the relationship?
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Sure :p

when I decide to take him out & spoil him. Often those are day trips to places we both wanna see :p
 
ChilliGirl said:
If my dude doesn't wanna pay then he shouldn't ask me to go somewhere....
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Let's just say, for me, being with you would suck regardless of whether I could afford you or not.

PS: though we'd been on a few more ''friendly'' dates (friends places, movies, drinks...) On our first ''offical romantic '' date -dinner for 2 at a nice place- he not only paid for dinner but also gave me a R400 bottle of nice smellies as a pressie. :D[/QUOTE]

I just couldn't counter this with out being a complete ****. Or maybe you're just a lucky chilligirl. Very lucky considering.
 
Helghast said:
Have you girls ever paid while out on a date? Not talking about first time, but later in the relationship?
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I always help.Offer too on any case (3 year relationship) but it is great knowing that I can save for stuff and him too. but when he takes me out. Like a date he pays.

I even take him out to spoil him. :) he likes that. Sushi it is then.
 
Nick333 said:
Let's just say, for me, being with you would suck regardless of whether I could afford you or not.

I just couldn't counter this with out being a complete ****. Or maybe you're just a lucky chilligirl. Very lucky considering.
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NEVER! on the first date or the next day or 3. That right is earned not a given or to be expected. Nor would I expect if from a guy.

My motto has always been : try it on the first night (you won't get) & it's the last you see of me....


I suppose my Italian Stallion is one in many million & I won't let him go! :p :D


(& before you ask - no one I dated for less than a month got that far... & a few beyond a month also got no more than a kiss or 2. A girl must have her standards, just like the guy should)
 
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ChilliGirl said:
If my dude doesn't wanna pay then he shouldn't ask me to go somewhere....

PS: though we'd been on a few more ''friendly'' dates (friends places, movies, drinks...) On our first ''offical romantic '' date -dinner for 2 at a nice place- he not only paid for dinner but also gave me a R400 bottle of nice smellies as a pressie. :D
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Cmon girl, that's too easy to impress you :)
 
Mila said:
But how do you go there? Difficult. I think my granny was over eager burning her bra...

I think it's a difficult situation. I'm not good at dating. So by that time no matter how much I like you I just want to go home and move on to date no 2. All that awareness, should I offer should I not. Should I hold his hand or not. About what will we talk.


I think boys should just pay for the first date. It would take away the stress of what is the right and what is not!
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I dunno, maybe you're right. It's actually not that different guys though.

It would just be a matter of reaching for your purse. Which would say to me, hey I'm an independent woman and I don't want you to think I'm looking for someone to pay my way. When I say nah, seriously don't worry about it I'm saying thats great but I understand you're the girl and I'm the boy and this is a first date and you know what? really, its 50 bucks.
 
Anony-mousse said:
Cmon girl, that's too easy to impress you :)
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:erm:

to be honest. On the night of that date i was still not sure if I would like him in THAT way....

Realised about 3 weeks later only ...

So yeah he got nothing that night (lol, not even a kiss yet)
 
ChilliGirl said:
NEVER! on the first date or the next day or 3. That right is earned not a given or to be expected. Nor would I expect if from a guy.

My motto has always been : try it on the first night (you won't get) & it's the last you see of me....


I suppose my Italian Stallion is one in many million & I won't let him go! :p :D


(& before you ask - no one I dated for less than a month got that far... & a few beyond a month also got no more than a kiss or 2. A girl must have her standards, just like the guy should)
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Either you completely misunderstood me or you're taking a joke on a tangent :wtf:
 
Nick333 said:
I dunno, maybe you're right. It's actually not that different guys though.

It would just be a matter of reaching for your purse. Which would say to me, hey I'm an independent woman and I don't want you to think I'm looking for someone to pay my way. When I say nah, seriously don't worry about it I'm saying thats great but I understand you're the girl and I'm the boy and this is a first date and you know what? really, its 50 bucks.
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I like a gentleman

& i like wearing a bra & being a gurl :D


(In business i can hold my own if I need to & have done so many times)
 
Nick333 said:
Either you completely misunderstood me or you're taking a joke on a tangent :wtf:
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As you wish to see it ;)

I'm not fighting, I'm not mad, I'm just glad I have who I have in my life. :D


I still wouldn't offer to pay on a first, 2nd or 3rd date. Even now I don't pay when he takes me out :p
 
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