Porn problem among SA teens

Why can't people bear to allow critique of the culture of pornography without going completely berserk? Why can't we dialogue about how and why pornography has negative impacts on societies and how and why it's related to other forms of oppression? Pornography is just as subject to criticism as all other media...

Sexually repressed and no sense of humor. :( Long walks in the fresh air may help.
 
brad tell me this

if porno is so bad for society why do priests fondle little boys?

reason:

because they are not allowed to have or view sex and this warps their minds
 
brad tell me this

if porno is so bad for society why do priests fondle little boys?

reason:

because they are not allowed to have or view sex and this warps their minds
Maybe it is because they have a warped sense of sexuality, but how does porn give you a good understanding of sexuality?
Killa, tell me this... why is it not possible for you to whack off without porn? :p How does it make you feel when you watch other naked men getting off? I'm asking cos I assume you're hetro.

Lol at the tags
 
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sex/porn is generally a big deal to those who are not used to seeing it

I gaurentee you that someone who slams the existance of porn is the same one who gets the most excitement out of it, and they hate themselves for it, they fear it and they fight it because it displays something they can't stand about themselves.

Because of "morals" etc, sex has been made into something very disgusting, which I think is rather unfortunate. Thats why porn exists, and thrives. If we were all brought up to view sex as something that is perfectly normal and acceptable, then there would be no porn IMO. Is it a bit late to change things and bring children up the complete opposite way? Absolutely, you can't do that.. But I think it should be incremented into society slowly and eventually porn wouldn't have much of a market.

Thats just my theory ^_~
 
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I like how Brad completely ignores the researched article I posted earlier on. Brad appears more interested in making less lesbians than noticing that porn has a negative effect on sexual crimes. Interesting morality that. Cherry picking must be fun :)
 
Bradbowllama -- your quotes are from too long ago :), and both of them quote "witnesses" and "sources". Here's some more recent information, from recent research, which I found rather interesting:


How the Web Prevents Rape
Does pornography breed rape? Do violent movies breed violent crime? Quite the opposite, it seems.
source: http://www.slate.com/id/2152487

As the father of a teenage son :), I also found the following article very interesting:

Anti-Porn Illogic
If porn destroys individuals, families and communities and leads to child sexual assault AND if porn is more often viewed by more people today than ever before, then shouldn't we be seeing huge increases in sexual assault?
source: http://scienceblogs.com/dispatches/2008/01/antiporn_illogic.php
 
You can find supporting evidence for both cases if you aren't biased. Do you guys agree that any kind of obsession is a problem? What about kids obsessed with drugs, alcohol? Or is the logic that they are inanimate and and can't have a harmful effect on society?
 
Bradbowllama -- your quotes are from too long ago :), and both of them quote "witnesses" and "sources". Here's some more recent information, from recent research, which I found rather interesting:



source: http://www.slate.com/id/2152487

As the father of a teenage son :), I also found the following article very interesting:


source: http://scienceblogs.com/dispatches/2008/01/antiporn_illogic.php

Do you have any reservations with regards pornography... is there nothing regarded as pornography that you would feel is harmful for your kids - or anyone for that matter?
 
Maybe it is because they have a warped sense of sexuality, but how does porn give you a good understanding of sexuality?
Killa, tell me this... why is it not possible for you to whack off without porn? :p How does it make you feel when you watch other naked men getting off? I'm asking cos I assume you're hetro.

Lol at the tags

dude i watch porno because whacking off to nothing is boring as kuk, i enjoy watching the cowgirl position and only watch that position

i have seen gay porn by accident and i turned it off disgusted, but im pretty sure alot gay men love it and thats fine man, i dont like the sausage but i dont mind it when its banging on some fresh fish :)

how can u have an understanding of sexuality if your not allowed to have sex?

porn changed my sex life big time brad, i tried things i would never have and changed my fiancee telling me she feels like a whore when doing doggystyle :)

watching porno sure helped her be more open which of course i never complained about, u can only have sex on top of a chick for so long :)
 
You can find supporting evidence for both cases if you aren't biased. Do you guys agree that any kind of obsession is a problem? What about kids obsessed with drugs, alcohol? Or is the logic that they are inanimate and and can't have a harmful effect on society?

I think people simply disagree on the cause of the obsession, some say its the availabilty, others says its the lack of availability?
 
I challenge any of you porn loving folks to give it up, completely for one month, and see how it has affected your lives. Chances are it is engrained in your minds and physical being more than you suspect.

Good luck... It's gonna be a tough month.
 
Did you think about this before you typed or where you just jumping on some imaginary moral bandwagon only you can see?
Did you maybe wake up on the wrong side of the bed today? Maybe take some medication and calm down. It is my belief and I have a right to feel that way. Wow sorry for offending you almighty. :rolleyes:
Maybe you support all these things.
 
I challenge any of you porn loving folks to give it up, completely for one month, and see how it has affected your lives. Chances are it is engrained in your minds and physical being more than you suspect.

Good luck... It's gonna be a tough month.

Why would one want to give it up for a month???? Are you crazy?
 
how can u have an understanding of sexuality if your not allowed to have sex?

porn changed my sex life big time brad, i tried things i would never have and changed my fiancee telling me she feels like a whore when doing doggystyle :)

watching porno sure helped her be more open which of course i never complained about, u can only have sex on top of a chick for so long :)

Sjoe boet - I blame your mom for not telling you that you can have sex without watching others doing it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCi19bqYSmQ
Then again, maybe she did tell you that and it scared you coming from mom.

I think what porn made you do is think 'jisslaaik that must be lekker - check the look on that tarts face when he does that'
never forget that they are paid to be abused... The shock factor is part of the selling point - boring doesn't sell - it's all about money, not your health and well being.
And chances are your wife does things to please you like most women do... don't be fooled that she enjoys it all boet - seriously. I could be wrong, but I doubt it. You have been married long enough to know that one.

I'll admit that alot of what I have learned in 13 years of marriage has involved reprogramming what my days in front of the porn flicks taught me. I have learned to make my wife happy and that has made incredible difference in the bedroom - despite what I was taught, we don't have to be weird to enjoy each other. That orgasm is alot nicer after alot of mutual communication (that's the big sense of the word - not just talk)... for both of us.
 
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I think people simply disagree on the cause of the obsession, some say its the availabilty, others says its the lack of availability?

Logic... it's far more available and far more prolific today than ever... people are watching it more than ever and spending money on it more than ever... how is it that lack of availability causes obsession? lol.
 
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