Porn problem among SA teens

Its simple, if you dont like it... dont watch it... its that simple. The rest of us are natural human beings with healthy sex lives and we dont have to conform to your fanatical prudity. Porn is healthy and natural, but like everything else in life, has to come with a healthy dose of moderation.

On an off topic note....

marine1... that was a real real lame response. Calm down? Would you like me to type slower for you? Or perhaps you could point out whats not "calm" about my response to you. I responded to your opinion with mine. Deal with it.
 
Its simple, if you dont like it... dont watch it... its that simple. The rest of us are natural human beings with healthy sex lives and we dont have to conform to your fanatical prudity.

On an offtopic note....

marine1... that was a real real lame response. Calm down? Would you like me to type slower for you? Or perhaps you could point out whats not "calm" about my response to you. I responded to your opinion with mine, and then you have a go at me for expressing my opinion about your opinion? Ja nee. Life must be funky in your reality.
Speak for yourself wiz, telling people to calm down and calling them fanatical just makes you look unintelligent.
 
Speak for yourself wiz, telling people to calm down and calling them fanatical just makes you look unintelligent.

I told someone to calm down? The fanatical comment was a general undirected comment (do you identify with it perhaps?). I think you should read over what was being written again? You seem to have missed something.
 
Logic... it's far more available and far more prolific today than ever... people are watching it more than ever and spending money on it more than ever... how is it that lack of availability causes obsession? lol.

Its only available to over 18's legally. Where is it mostly available? On the internet or in shady alleys. Basically places where people can get to it without feeling ashamed and without being judged by others. How many people are open in front of friends and family and spouses and children about their enjoyment of it? hardly any. So I think its available yes, but its not the best example of availability.

Its success is largely temporary IMO. but ofcourse these things take many generations to fade out. So you may not think of it as temporary, and more as temporarily permanent =P Ofcourse its going to be successful when obsession has been created from the beginning of time. When people are no longer disgusted by sex, or think of sex as immoral, then that will be the true test I guess. As we are now, as a society we are still disgusted by it. Like I said, its just a theory, and im not going to be force feeding my children porn lol If I have kids they will largely be left to their own conclusions, and will have me to bounce ideas off

But you know kids, tell them not to do something, and it only perks their interest. and thats my point. I don't think its just kids.. I think thats a trait that is carried by a large part of the human race.

Im just thinking out loud (not really actually im typing)... :D
 
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Ja nee... how do you debate against this? Its like a blank and a brick debating what its like to be water.
 
Yeah, cause porn, alcohol and drugs are a new thing to society right? Its not like humans have being doing all 3 of those since the dawn of recorded history and often in worse volumes than we have now (decadence of Rome, Opium in China).

I have not read all the responses in this thread yet but after reading this one I was driven to respond. Wizard I have no idea what age you are but I am a young 36, and I can personally tell you about the moral decay within this country of ours. You may mention China and Rome but we live and are brought up in SA so this should be our point of reference. Yes, you cannot molly coddle and protect the people from access to porn etc for their whole lives but things were vastly different when I was young (and I know how that sounds to you but it is so true in this instance).

Remember we did not have access to the internet when I was a kid. In fact I was one of the first few people in my school chosen to do computer studies as an extra subject from Standard 8 on, back in 1987! The only exposure we had to "porn" (if you could even stretch it to call it that) was the odd Scope magazine, complete with stars on the nipples and not even a hint of pubic area, that a school mate would get his hands on courtesy of a brother in the army. If we were really "lucky" someone would bring a dog eared Playboy magazine that a family member had brought back to SA from overseas and you would see actual nipples and catch a glimpse of pubic hair if you really strained your eyes.

Now compare this to today's youth with full on hardcore porn a mere click away. Even Etv shows more nipples in two hours than I was probably exposed to in a year! Sexual connotations on TV are appalling now too. If you do not have a young child you will not even comprehend this, but I suggest watching TV with someone who is under 10 and see how often you will cringe at some of the references! All of a sudden even "innocent" shows like Two and a Half Men or Samantha Who become not suitable!

It's funny, we also seemed to respect women more than the young guys do nowadays but that is a whole new argument.



EDIT : And from personal experience I know that it does not stop at eventually seeing the odd nipple under the scratch off stars that came the way of Scope! You always want more! Even with porn. You always want something a little more way out.

Now I feel the problem too is that the youth are no longer exposed to sex in an innocent way. We used to have to "find our way" by ourselves. Today they first learn about sex from porn movies and then assume that this is the way sex should be in normal life.No more innocence and self discovery. Doesn't matter what anyone says, this has to be bad!

And by the way this comes from someone who is pro porn but feel it is really not something anyone under the ago of at least 21 should not have access to!!
 
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Marine, Im seriously not responding to you, because you are not worth responding to. Sorry mate, waiting for you to play the ball again.
 
/me looks at the topic... oh it says teens... sorry was confused there for a moment.
 
w1z4rd, may I ask how old you are please? It would just put the argument into perspective. I have told you I am 36 so would be interesting to see what angle you are coming at this from.
 
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