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"It's actually really common to start reproducing before you're done growing. Most animals do that. Reptiles do that. Medium- and large-sized mammals do that. Whether our parents like it or not, humans do that," Werning said.
Is this an excuse/explanation for pedophilia???
Consider this. 2 Days before you're 18th birthday, ...
men(who look like dirty old fat guys with receeding hairlines and sweaty, beefy faces).
My boyfriend is 16 and I am 19. what does it make me?
...right?big difference in maturity levels of somebody who is 19 and somebody who is 16(especially if the latter is male)
Pedophilia is a sickness that unloved (usually)men get when they can't find a suitable spouse. In very few cases its a woman, but most of the time its men(who look like dirty old fat guys with receeding hairlines and sweaty, beefy faces). My boyfriend is 16 and I am 19. what does it make me? with such a small age difference, nobody really knows. Im not a cradle snatcher if you guys are thinking that...
Pedophilia is a sickness that unloved (usually)men get when they can't find a suitable spouse. In very few cases its a woman, but most of the time its men(who look like dirty old fat guys with receeding hairlines and sweaty, beefy faces). My boyfriend is 16 and I am 19. what does it make me? with such a small age difference, nobody really knows. Im not a cradle snatcher if you guys are thinking that...
ffs where were all these girls/sexed up teachers when i was 16
what kind of god is so unfair![]()
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big difference in maturity levels of somebody who is 19 and somebody who is 16 especially if the latter is male.
Pedophilia is a sickness but it does not come from being unloved or not being involved with somebody else. It is purely a mental problem that cannot be avoided by getting together with someone, that sickness stays, you either keep it under control or you act on it.
An old friend of mines uncle was a convicted phedophile - he was happily married with kids of his own and no apparent troubles. Phedophilia covers any sex not just males, dont generalise. Maybe you just dont hear many stories where it involved the women.
The whole law regarding ages is geared on maturity levels and making informed descisions. I think the age limit should be dropped to 16 for all involved, men and women. They will also be held accountable for any diseases contracted and pregnancies had. If you are old enough to make the descision to have sex, then you are old enough to rear a child, and old enough to take on the responsibilities.
Is this an excuse/explanation for pedophilia???
Consider this. 2 Days before you're 18th birthday, if you screw another 17 year old it's legal but 4 days (2 days after 18th birthday) you've allegedly changed so much that you've committed a crime.
Pedophilia is if you like prepubescent kids (i think that means under 13), not 15yos...
So I'm one then?
"Like" is not the correct term to use here imho.![]()
I meant sexually like, and it might be even under a younger age, i'm too lazy to google/wiki it...
very interesting.
i guess we are animals after all.