So i've met this girl

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Dohc-WP

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and I kinda need help on this.


here's the story
Ok so after being single for a few months now i'v met a girl again @ work ! The thing is she knows im into her in a way but i dont know what her opinion is on me, she told me she has a Bf (i dunno if its true) but she attacked me after someone (wu's a fool) told her that i have a gf but I didnt tell her. She always asks me for help when she needs any and a few days ago she asked me can she can come and join me in my car during lunch time, which she did until her manager saw us in my car and she kinda freaked out (that people are gonna gossip bout her) and then she wanted to go back inside !

Im kind of in a dilemma of pursue or not. so what should i do ?
 
feo said:
So she joined you for a nap?

How does she feel about the fact that you watch so much p0rn? :D
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No I changed my mind regarding nap after she asked me can she join me (we ended up talking about stuff until her manager walked past and saw the 2 of us)

She doesnt seem like the naughty type (so i'll be silent about the pron for now :D)
 
Dohc-WP said:
No I changed my mind regarding nap after she asked me can she join me (we ended up talking about stuff until her manager walked past and saw the 2 of us)

She doesnt seem like the naughty type (so i'll be silent about the pron for now :D)
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No harm in just sitting in a car chatting. Is her manager a hard ass?

If he is, my advice is to just leave it alone during working hours. If he feels you're distracting her from work, he could very well cause sh|t for you with your manager. If he's a cool guy, carry on talking to her but don't do it in places like your car, go to the canteen or something in the open.
 
feo said:
No harm in just sitting in a car chatting. Is her manager a hard ass?

If he is, my advice is to just leave it alone during working hours. If he feels you're distracting her from work, he could very well cause sh|t for you with your manager. If he's a cool guy, carry on talking to her but don't do it in places like your car, go to the canteen or something in the open.
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she has a female manager (it was my lunch time and her tea time)
 
Dohc-WP said:
she has a female manager (it was my lunch time and her tea time)
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Well we have female managers in our office and many of them are scarier than the guys managing. :sick:

Don't try to hide stuff away from people, rather keep it in the open. Being secretive always leads to trouble. I don't even have a gf at the moment and I'm giving out advice..go figure.
 
Well clearly her intentions are a bit dodgy. She probably did not mind seeing you in the car coz she did not want anybody to see the two of you together. Which probably means she does have a boyfriend. If she is showing you interest then he could be on his way out, no one know for sure right now, not even her. So depending on how you feel about her, it's time for you to take a stand. Flirt, have fun, show your interest. Tell her you'd like to meet her outside of working hours and the office. You don't have to pick her up or anything. You could meet her somewhere. If you really want her, you could add a little romance to the rendezvous . Otherwise just call it quits and see if she still shows an interest in you. Either way: what I'm saying is take charge. State your case. Be the man!
 
psivius said:
Well clearly her intentions are a bit dodgy. She probably did not mind seeing you in the car coz she did not want anybody to see the two of you together. Which probably means she does have a boyfriend. If she is showing you interest then he could be on his way out, no one know for sure right now, not even her. So depending on how you feel about her, it's time for you to take a stand. Flirt, have fun, show your interest. Tell her you'd like to meet her outside of working hours and the office. You don't have to pick her up or anything. You could meet her somewhere. If you really want her, you could add a little romance to the rendezvous . Otherwise just call it quits and see if she still shows an interest in you. Either way: what I'm saying is take charge. State your case. Be the man!
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Aye, +1 ...... see what she's like towards you outside of work :)
 
psivius said:
Well clearly her intentions are a bit dodgy. She probably did not mind seeing you in the car coz she did not want anybody to see the two of you together. Which probably means she does have a boyfriend. If she is showing you interest then he could be on his way out, no one know for sure right now, not even her. So depending on how you feel about her, it's time for you to take a stand. Flirt, have fun, show your interest. Tell her you'd like to meet her outside of working hours and the office. You don't have to pick her up or anything. You could meet her somewhere. If you really want her, you could add a little romance to the rendezvous . Otherwise just call it quits and see if she still shows an interest in you. Either way: what I'm saying is take charge. State your case. Be the man!
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Thanx i'll see 2mrw how it goes
 
Rubbish man if the ink is there dip it dude.

Just first check out her b/f is not a big agro dude who at any moment could snap your neck.
 
Dohc-WP said:
and I kinda need help on this.


here's the story
Ok so after being single for a few months now i'v met a girl again @ work ! The thing is she knows im into her in a way but i dont know what her opinion is on me, she told me she has a Bf (i dunno if its true) but she attacked me after someone (wu's a fool) told her that i have a gf but I didnt tell her. She always asks me for help when she needs any and a few days ago she asked me can she can come and join me in my car during lunch time, which she did until her manager saw us in my car and she kinda freaked out (that people are gonna gossip bout her) and then she wanted to go back inside !

Im kind of in a dilemma of pursue or not. so what should i do ?
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Unless you're spending 12 hours at the office and working 6 days a week I'd advise you to go look somewhere else for love. This ain't school anymore...even if she had a boyfriend there's still way too many complications like gossiping colleagues- which dating in the office(even if its different depts) difficult.

There's lots of pretty, smart girls in Cape Town...so just get out there and you'll find a chick- even the most antisocial nerds on this forum have been hooked up.
 
brixton tower said:
There's lots of pretty, smart girls in Cape Town...so just get out there and you'll find a chick- even the most antisocial nerds on this forum have been hooked up.
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Hmm. I'm a female antisocial nerd and I'm not hooked up :(

Maybe that means there's a shortage of good looking, smart, responsible guys in Cape Town? :D

(or conversely, that I'm not pretty enough :( ;I'm definitely smart)
 
CathJ said:
Hmm. I'm a female antisocial nerd and I'm not hooked up :(

Maybe that means there's a shortage of good looking, smart, responsible guys in Cape Town? :D

(or conversely, that I'm not pretty enough :( ;I'm definitely smart)
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Asked you for a pic long time ago..... but no....
 
Female anti social nerds normally don't get hooked up but men do for some arb reason.

Pics Cath come on now :p
 
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