I'm falling for someone that is moving away

BLIXEMPIE

BLIXEMPIE

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So there's this girl I met, and I'm starting to cautiously fall for her. See, we get along surprisingly well, she's funny and sweet, etc. And I get the sense she feels the same about me. Yet we are cautious since she has already planned her life ahead, she will definately be working abroad within 6 months, persuing her dreams. So if we got involved now it will be for 6 months. It could be the best 6 months of our lives. But is the heartache when she moves away worth it? :confused:
 
You can love a lifetimes worth in 6 months. Go for it and enjoy life. You only live once!
 
From my personal experience this does not and will not work. You already sound to heavily invested for a clean break when she moves.

One of you will be left heartbroken in time, so move on now and try avoid having feelings for her. (I know it will not be easy)
 
d-_-b said:
SI say go for it, a lot of things can change in 6 months.
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This. Go for it. 6months is a long time actually. If it doesn't work out, you'll get over it. But not knowing what might have been, that'll prob stay with you.
Who knows, you might approach her and she flat out declines you, haha...just sayin. Either way, at least you've tried.
 
Go for it, 6 months isn't a long time but it's enough.
 
In the words of Arnie, "Do it, do iiiiitttttttt".

BTW dreams should be built together IMO, not individually.
 
I would go for it. I'd rather have done something than regret not doing so. Just my view ;)
 
If you go for it then you get to bang her for 6 months....

If you don't you get nothing and she moves away anyway.

After six months you can decide if its worth following her or perhaps she wants to stay... if its real then you will make the sacrifice, if its not then at least you tried.

Imagine if she is the love of your life and you never tried because you think it will be hard if she moves away ?
 
i say avoid
In those 6 months you could meet someone who isnt leaving
remember you are in the infatuation phase and it fools the best of us, so its likely its not all that
 
It depends how easily you score chicks. If you're fugly then go for it, otherwise you might be alone for the next six months anyway.
 
Simple. Knock her up, then you get to go with or even better she has to stay with you.
 
Sensorei said:
It depends how easily you score chicks. If you're fugly then go for it, otherwise you might be alone for the next six months anyway.
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Some of the ugliest dudes I know seem to score the hottest women :/
 
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