Another one Stoner? Geez My desperate radar is going bananas, I foresee death
Another one Stoner? Geez My desperate radar is going bananas, I foresee death
If you can be cocky and mix it with humour, it's dynamite. If you can't, then I'd still say rather be cocky than nice.Don't be cocky, that just sucks
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This man got it mostly right! Except the boobs part, might be a bit too direct. Other than that, +1 on this.Originally Posted by AcidRaZor
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Yes I agree. I like the "show me your boobs" part.
Where is the +1 button. 100% on the spot.
Now, if only I could follow that advice.
My.. you are quite the charmer...
What Would Good Guy Lucifer Do?
You need to start practicing the very basics. TALKING to women. They don't bite (much). Once you can talk to a woman (any woman) and not worry about what kind of impression you're making or getting a hard-on / be nervous. You can take the next step, saying unexpected things. It's hard to come up with an example off the top of my head because it usually flows in with the conversation, but I usually test the waters by taking something she said that MIGHT be ambiguous and put a sexual spin on it, but never really saying the words. She then either picks up on it or doesn't. If she does, you can gauge her reaction and work from that.Where is the +1 button. 100% on the spot.
Now, if only I could follow that advice.
I probably DO need to go see a psychiatrist, but that's to work on my depression and lack of desire to do anything. The advice I spew about women and how to talk/date/get them is just basic science and they'll actively protest against it. What a woman says works and what actually works are two very different things.
And like I said, Nicci's advice would be fine if there's a "let me come clean with you, I didn't have a falcon" moment... I also don't agree with moping around because of your lost bird and seeking some kind of "awww poor baby" reaction. A simple "well, this sucks, want to go grab some coffee? I owe you for helping me look" is better and then together with the "cute" explanation that you lied will set you off on a possibility of a REAL relationship instead of one based on lies.
Obviously I was straight to the point. But I don't hesitate to just ask, especially if I know I won't be interested or she might not be either. Thus far my success rate for just being straight forward is 9/10. Sometimes you have to play the long game. The longest it took me to see some boobies (and this is without spending a cent on dates/movies/flowers and crap) was 3 years.
That's true, but keeping up a cocky/humor approach throughout a relationship is damn near impossible. Be confident/cute/smart and you're set most of the time. If you want a one-night stand then cocky/humor.
As for the replies re: "being nice". You can still be nice/sweet AND confident. The trick is not to let go of what YOU want and bending to her will ALL the time. "Let's go out dancing on Friday" and let's say you don't feel like it, just go "No, not really in the mood." "Aw pleaseeee". "How about we go play pool instead?" (or whatever, if you don't feel like going out at all, just keep with no and compromise for later in the weekend to go for brunch somewhere nice or whatever YOU feel like doing).
But anyway. Nicci says I'm crazy. Crazy works for me. I like it.
Was that Nicci's by any chance?
What Would Good Guy Lucifer Do?
All good advice, AcidRaZor, but my problem is, where do you go to talk to a girl? This might seem like a stoopid Q, but for me, it aint.
I don't think it is a good idea to do this at a club. Was at one this past tuesday and the girls get so drunk...
I was open to the online dating thing, till someone changed my mind about it.
Yes, you can always join a club (like a cycling club) but I don't think there is one for gamers.
Library...? I don't read at all, so that would be me pretending to be someone I am not.
I am actually fishing for ideas, as I never had to do something like this. It's all new to me.
start at your work and the woman aroundAll good advice, AcidRaZor, but my problem is, where do you go to talk to a girl? This might seem like a stoopid Q, but for me, it aint.
I don't think it is a good idea to do this at a club. Was at one this past tuesday and the girls get so drunk...
I was open to the online dating thing, till someone changed my mind about it.
Yes, you can always join a club (like a cycling club) but I don't think there is one for gamers.
Library...? I don't read at all, so that would be me pretending to be someone I am not.
I am actually fishing for ideas, as I never had to do something like this. It's all new to me.
clubs have the drunkies and malls have the ones who want you to spend money on them
so if you want to pay for sex take the one at the mall and if you want to get aids the one at the clubs would do well
if you want a relationship ask friends ....
Classy compliments work;pick-up lines don't.
I have heard that compliments place the woman on a pedestal and then you are close to entering the friend zone!
It depends on the compliment.
A little rudeness and disrespect can elevate a meaningless interaction to a battle of wills and add drama to an otherwise dull day.
-Calvin
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