Sex Addict

[CrazyFig]

Omegle? Every second person is pic of a penis...no thanks...

[ChocolateBadger]

Omegle? Every second person is pic of a penis...no thanks...

Stop looking at the second people.

[CrazyFig]

lol

[buyeye]

If you really want to stop you would stop.

Most addicts usually when they see rock bottom if the wife is leaving how much lower do you want to go.

[STS]

If you really want to stop you would stop.

Most addicts usually when they see rock bottom if the wife is leaving how much lower do you want to go.

i may sound like a wussy, but it isn't that easy for me but i'm going to try

It is unfortunate to see your situation. I as well had trouble to enjoy my fetish with my past partners but thankfully my SO has fetishes and we thoroughly enjoy each others fetishes. There was a time I felt hopeless and that I won't be able to find someone who can enjoy something different to the same old same old and I know how frustrating it is if your partner is not comfortable with it because it is apart of who you are. So what I'm saying it that you will find someone who you can enjoy your fetish with. Seeing as you like porn so much, try online chat sites, Omegle is a good place, just don't be a creeper.

i try to not be a creep, that also makes connecting with people who share the same interests hard as a lot of them are creeps and only want one thing. i don't think i'd ever be able to connect with another person like i did with my wife, because of the emotion i put into it and the risk. so here's probably to a life of hookers and masturbation

But the very fact that you've posted here says you think you either require help, or want other people to justify your urge.

i feel i need help, it's nice that people justify it as i used to justify it too, and people should do whatever makes them happy. i'm pro-sex and sexuality, i just haven't been a very decent person myself.

OP lost his wife to the new age illuminati/lizard people/star child freak!?

yep. one of the problems.

Bud leave the past behind you and focus on the future.All this freak on stuff is not helping now and it never will.It will just become worse.You've got a little kid now so focus on being the best dad you can be.
Seek some councelling,because the fact that you can post here shows that there is help for you.

I want to be the best dad i can be, and i think i'll avoid councilling and try it myself and see how it goes, but it seems like an extremely difficult task at the moment because while i'm fine now, it will creep back again later and seem appealing

[joelus]

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/

http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/showthre...and-your-brain

[Helghast]

Your getting divorced!? Since when?

Anyway is your fetish really that bad? we live in a society where anything slightly kinky is regarded as terrible and a sin.. if it's something like you want to stab your partner while fsckin, i can understand why you would want to stop, but if it's just usual ol BDSM i don't see the problem. try find someone with the same kinks as you or at least someone who is sexually open. If there are two consenting adults who want to explore a fetish then i'm all for it.
Care to describe some of your fetishes?

[ChocolateBadger]

I want to be the best dad i can be, and i think i'll avoid councilling and try it myself and see how it goes, but it seems like an extremely difficult task at the moment because while i'm fine now, it will creep back again later and seem appealing

Have you ever been to councilling? Its really not that big of a deal, there's a certain stigma that is attached to councilling. Find a shrink, preferably male and just tell him. He can help you out with how to handle your urges. I specified male so he can see eye to eye where a female might look down on you or feel uncomfortable. Maybe you and your wife should see a sexologist, help you and your wife to come to a common agreement in the bed room. Really you have nothing to lose.

Its just how south africa is, most people here are very taboo when I come to fetishes. If you really feeling the urge to be free, move to a European country, those girls will do anything. lol

[STS]

Your getting divorced!? Since when?

Anyway is your fetish really that bad? we live in a society where anything slightly kinky is regarded as terrible and a sin.. if it's something like you want to stab your partner while fsckin, i can understand why you would want to stop, but if it's just usual ol BDSM i don't see the problem. try find someone with the same kinks as you or at least someone who is sexually open. If there are two consenting adults who want to explore a fetish then i'm all for it.
Care to describe some of your fetishes?

since last week.
it's not so bad, but i do tend to feel a bit of shame and guilt with it as it is kind of dark stuff and there isn't really a rational reason behind it.
no

Have you ever been to councilling? Its really not that big of a deal, there's a certain stigma that is attached to councilling. Find a shrink, preferably male and just tell him. He can help you out with how to handle your urges. I specified male so he can see eye to eye where a female might look down on you or feel uncomfortable. Maybe you and your wife should see a sexologist, help you and your find to come to a common agreement in the bed room. Really you have nothing to lose.

i wouldn't be able to afford it, i found a decent one but i need to put money aside for it then, and i sometimes wonder what would be the use just talking about it. i appreciate that, i love my wife but even if i fix this one thing, there will be other things i'll need to fix and address. i just realised that this is a destructive part of me and has/will ruin any relationships i have with anyone

[Dolby]

I'm also intrigued as to what it can be ... and how bad it actually is.

Does it involve objects?

[ChocolateBadger]

i wouldn't be able to afford it, i found a decent one but i need to put money aside for it then, and i sometimes wonder what would be the use just talking about it. i appreciate that, i love my wife but even if i fix this one thing, there will be other things i'll need to fix and address. i just realised that this is a destructive part of me and has/will ruin any relationships i have with anyone

I have this thing where I assume that everyone has medical aid. If you do, there are shrinks that accept medical aid. If you are not killing or raping and you are not a pedo, then there is someone out there who will do it. Take a holiday to Holland

Also back with the Omegle thing, Set your fetishes as your interests then talk with who comes up, maybe they can help, weather its coping or something else, at least you can chat about it.

[STS]

I have this thing where I assume that everyone has medical aid. If you do, there are shrinks that accept medical aid. If you are not killing or raping and you are not a pedo, then there is someone out there who will do it. Take a holiday to Holland

Also back with the Omegle thing, Set your fetishes as your interests then talk with who comes up, maybe they can help, weather its coping or something else, at least you can chat about it.

oh i have medical aid, i'm just saving it up for my son and i've already taken quite a big chunk out of it already with operations

i'll do that tonight, thanks for the link. i thought omegle was like the chat roulette thing where every second person is a penis. tried that once, they were only interested in talking to my wife thanks very much dude

[STS]

I'm also intrigued as to what it can be ... and how bad it actually is.

Does it involve objects?

not gonna happen

[ChocolateBadger]

oh i have medical aid, i'm just saving it up for my son and i've already taken quite a big chunk out of it already with operations

i'll do that tonight, thanks for the link. i thought omegle was like the chat roulette thing where every second person is a penis. tried that once, they were only interested in talking to my wife thanks very much dude

No problem man.

Yeah omegle is text chat or video chat and anonymous.

[Devill]

not gonna happen

Then it is making beasty love with a unicorn?