I think I need to break up with my GF. We have been dating for 4 months, and I'm just not feeling anything. As in, it feels like I'm going through the motions, not because I am in love with her or anything.
I dont know why, there is nothing wrong with her. I cant think of anything that I really dont like, but for some reason, I'm not head over heels with her. I dont understand it. I've felt this way for 2 months or so, and I thought I'd just give it time to see if something could develop. Nothing has, not from my side anyway.
She has noticed, she has said once or twice that sometimes it feels like I dont really want to see her but am only doing it because she expects me too. She is completely right, but I've politely denied it thus far.
So I've invited her round for supper tonight, after that I need to break it to her.
Thing is, what should I say? I do want to be completely honest, but I dont want to hurt her more than necessary. I mean, obviously breaking up is not kiff, I just want to minimize the damage.